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Cuckold: All The World's A Stage

Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective

Background

Coming into our relationship, Sienna’s sexual fantasies centered around being submissive. While I have many fantasies, cuckold play is a personal favorite. Nothing makes me hotter than imagining my lover getting off on being taken by a well-hung black man. While our fantasies appeared to be in conflict, we eventually merged our individual fantasies into a shared and wildly exciting cuckold fantasy. As we were in the process of moving from fantasy to reality, Sienna sent me an email describing her vision of our cuckold fantasy from a submissive woman’s perspective. 

Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective

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Email Excerpt: July 2014  

I LOVE you, my amazing sexy Man! And, I LOVE your cock…MY cock! My sweet little cock. Baby, this is why we are perfect together. Well, it is one of many, many reasons but one of the physical reasons. Your little cock fits my little pussy and tight space [ass] so PERFECTLY!!! Yet, you make me want to explore and yearn for more…a bigger, longer, thicker, and darker cock! Of course, this yearning is only for the contrast and our naughty fun though.

Sweet love, it is important to me that the other man knows how much I love, adore and respect you. I want him to know that you are not “less than” in my eyes. This is one of the big reasons I’m so uncomfortable about having some random black guy with a big cock taking me. Yes, he will fuck me and it will be hot, but it isn’t about me and him. It is all about OUR experience…it’s about you and me!

This is why I’m so, so, so excited about Jalen [a black man we engaged to bring our fantasy to life]. He knows how special and amazing we are together and what all of this naughtiness means to us. He has read our love stories [from the blog we shared] and understands our deep connection. He knows and understands the passion, lust, and love we have for one another. It’s so important to me that the other man knows this. I am YOUR girl!

I submit to YOUR desire for me to be fucked by a muscular, hung black man. I could have experienced this at any point in my life before you but didn’t. Now, I want to experience this as an act of submission to you for US. It makes me so hot thinking about you telling me to take out his cock and the other naughty things that you will tell me to do or direct to have happen. Whether I am sucking his big cock or he is fucking me good, I am submitting to your direction. I do it for you, not for him. I do it to him, to please you. You are in charge of my sexual pleasure even if you bring in another man to give it to me!

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My deepest form of submission is to you–the man I love with all my soul–directing and telling me you want me to have a bigger, thicker more fulfilling-sized cock…allowing another man to stretch and fill my pussy to the max! To please you, I am allowing a black man to thrust and bury his long, thick black cock deep in my pussy and give me more than I have ever experienced before.

It’s an exhilarating rush of naughty submission that I never imagined possible as you push my submission and sexuality to new limits. This is such a naughty contrast to my reality. People me would be SHOCKED to know I have such naughty dark cravings and something about that makes me so hot! Experiencing a bigger, darker, thicker cock is also such a contrast to your beautiful but smaller, white cock. Just thinking about it makes me gush with silky wetness! 

I don’t think I’ve shared this with you before, but there is another erotic twist in this fantasy that is such a turn on. The hung black man will think he has his sexy white girl now. He sees himself as the pleasure and erotic passion I seek. He envisions himself as the center of my universe and believes I will see you as nothing and inferior. He thinks he has it all and is controlling the scenario and can get me. Yet, the impetus for me is what it is for US! It’s all about OUR pleasure seeking for US! He plays a role that is not about the intimate, adoring love, and deep connection we have. He’s only there for our fun and captivating naughtiness. What can’t be taken and won over is the deep, heartfelt, and connecting love we have fostered and treasure.

Mmmmm, this is my secret and real depiction of our fantasy and our true love, Babe!

Reflection

Sienna’s love and commitment to me and our relationship was evident in this email. She did a wonderful job capturing the essence of our cuckold fantasy and how she saw herself as submitting to me within the experience. I also enjoyed how she envisioned us in the moment and how important it was for her Bull to see and feel the power of our love for one another…even as he is fucking her. She also provided a heavy dose of “small penis teasing” which I find extremely exciting as a form of psychological masochism.

She was always clear and consistent with me about how she felt and wanted to experience the fantasy, but I did have concerns. Through her sharing of fantasies and desires with Jalen during the buildup, she would tell him another story and create different expectations in his mind for how she wanted the experience to play out. This would become a mild but persistent point of friction between us as we moved towards reality.

If you are new to cuckolding or would like understand more about this sexual kink, I have a few posts on Cream of the Planet (my primary blog) that delve into the mind of a cuckold. You can link to them here:

23 comments on “Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective

  1. Kristi
    December 31, 2016

    I can really get a sense of what Sienna was going to get out of this event and how it would fulfill her desire to be submissive to you. It’s interesting to read her words to you on it as well as see how she was able to feed your particular kinks and erotic yearnings even if they weren’t initially her own. Fascinating to get taken back in this way.

    Hope you had a Merry Christmas and blessings for a bright New Year! 💋

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    • Michael
      January 3, 2017

      Thanks for checking this out, Kristi😊It’s kind of hard at times going through these, but I still find myself very turned on as remember how it felt in the moment. Hopefully, I will do this story justice and arouse a few folks along the way🔥☺️ Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and New Year’s holiday😘

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      • Kristi
        January 5, 2017

        I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes when I revisit older pieces and am taken pack to that time or person in my life it brings back all the feelings and sometimes amplified. And you are doing it justice at least from my end anyway. Oh, you don’t have to worry about not arousing folks Michael. That has never been a problem for you. 😘

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      • Michael
        January 5, 2017

        Arousing others is something you certainly excel at, sexy one ☺️🍆Hope you will share some of your naughty adventures and fantasies in 2017😘

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      • Kristi
        January 6, 2017

        Mmmmm, we will see. Just need to find more time! 😘

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  3. liverpoolmunky76
    January 15, 2017

    I found this deeply touching and arousing. Her love for you is very clear throughout

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    • Michael
      January 16, 2017

      Thank you, she was an incredible lover… I still find it surreal to read her thoughts about being with another man and how sensually she was able to still express her feelings for me at the same time…such a turn on. She was special.

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      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 16, 2017

        The line about you being in charge of her pleasure, even though another man was providing it got me hard, I don’t mind telling you

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      • Michael
        January 16, 2017

        I like it when you share… I enjoy knowing what turns people on and how it matches up with my erotic spots. A loving, submissive cuckoldress is definitely in my erotic sweet spot.

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      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 16, 2017

        Also there’s a voyeuristic element that is also arousing

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      • Michael
        January 18, 2017

        Great call, it’s like our personal erotic movie playing out in real time. We get to watch and they get to be exhibitionists…

        Liked by 1 person

      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 18, 2017

        And you get to play later

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      • Michael
        January 18, 2017

        Yes, not as tight but even more delicious…

        Liked by 1 person

      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 18, 2017

        I wonder, how would it feel if there was a third man involved?

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      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 18, 2017

        I always enjoy these conversations

        Liked by 1 person

      • Michael
        January 24, 2017

        Thank you, my friend…I really enjoy the interactions with you too.

        Liked by 1 person

      • liverpoolmunky76
        January 24, 2017

        Looking forward to reading your next post

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  4. myarousal
    April 14, 2017

    Lovely written, very arousing!

    Liked by 2 people

    • Michael
      April 16, 2017

      So glad you enjoyed this. There were several fantasies merging here that may appear to conflict at first pass but it ended up being hotter than either of us ever imagined. Thank you for the reblog, my friend!

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      • myarousal
        April 17, 2017

        I re-blog when I read something that I feel is genuine and real……and more people should be able to read it…..bringing you a wider audience……when a voice is something to be heard and pondered…..thank you for sharing so honestly……

        I have thought about this issue of cuckolding from both sides….I have seen my ex with another man in the past and been so incredibly aroused….and yes it was a bit of a “cuckolding” experience…..but I’ve had a few “relationships” where I was the bull as well…….this issue can be be very conflicted…..so arousing to see your wife being satisfied so completely……and then the danger of losing who you both are…..been there done that…..

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      • Michael
        April 17, 2017

        I hope you will share some of your cuckolding and bull experiences. I’ve done a bit of both myself. As long as it is framed as sexual play and boundaries are respected, it is all good fun. But, as you suggest, people are emotional and unpredictable…everything can’t be controlled like a lab experiment.

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  5. myarousal
    April 14, 2017

    Reblogged this on myarousal and commented:
    This is lovely written, arousing, passionate….

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